2016. 27. Married.

Hello there.

Its 2016. And here's the long overdue story.

I was married last year on 6.6.2015. Yawn. Its almost a year in a few days and here i am writing about the big event of my life. BIG YAWN.

The thing is, i might give birth to our first baby anytime soon hence the wedding story. Because who might know my kids might read this entry one day and they might ask where's the wedding story. (so perasan)

6.6.2015

With one lafaz of Akad, i am a wife to this gentleman name Mr. N. (I'll post up his picture right after this. He deserve that much acknowledgment to be by my side till death do us part)

I met him through my parents and we get to know each other for about a year before we decided to get married (although he did proposed me after 3 days of getting to know each other). And then he flew to UK for his master studies and i was completing my second degree. So basically we only see each other twice before he was departed. And for the whole one year of getting to know each other, It was a long distance relationship. Because of the time differences and busy schedule, we only get to text each other on weekend and because of my 'poyo' request to jaga the adab and everything he only called me once a month.

For that one year, there was so many ups and down between us (well most of it was because of me!) I feel like my life was so complicated and that i am not ready to handle a man in my life (so drama) but above all of my attitude, he was so patient and loyal towards me. He never retract his proposal despite everything that i ever said or done to him (so baik la this guy).

So when he finally came back from his study, we did make prior arrangement to meet at the KLIA and i was so nervous i suspect there was a big fat elephant thumping in my stomach. Meeting him once again after a year communicating through text only really is a weird thing (in a good way). I feel like all those one year was vanish away and that day was the first day we really get to know each other. Like a blind date kinda feeling (although i never been to one before). We were so awkward and we don't know what to say to each other.

After some time, he tried to break the ice and make a conversation. It went well. He gave me a lot of beautiful stuff he bought throughout that one year and collect it all to give it to me that day. (And of course the insensitive me have nothing to give back to him not even a welcome home card! SIGH)

That day went so well and when its time for him to take the flight home ( he already bought flight ticket to hometown that same day so we spend  time only in between his flight schedule) i already feel attached to him. So again, we separated to a different city.

After that he was busy with finding job and I was busy with my Chambering (9 month internship to be advocates and solicitors) and we only get to see each other when he came to KL and believe it or not we never really had a proper date where i get to wear nice outfit and make up ( i really hope we have time to do that again).

On Janury 2015, at the end of my 9 month Chambering, the marriage proposal came again. And this time it was my father who brought that up (LOL thanks Dad). This time around i really don't have anymore reason to say no as i've already graduated and have proper job. So it's a YES. Once again we met each other as requested by our parents to discuss the date for marriage (that night his family came to my house for proper discussion). He came with that small 'kalendar cina' and highlighted to me all the proposed date (i can't stop laughing thinking about that) and we decided 6.6.2015 (he's so keen towards nice number arrangement).

That night, i was engaged to him. Although it was only a mere gathering to discuss our relationship but his family came with a ring ( and i am so not ready for an engagement ceremony i wore only tudung sarung and plain jubah. LOL). We only have less than 6 month to prepare for the wedding and as i am working in KL and only went back home occasionally it was my dear Mom who arrange for everything (Love you Mom!) and i only went back home 3 days before the wedding.

Alhamdulillah everything went well. The akad nikah was in the morning of 6.6.2015 and we had our reception that same night. And because we were both from the same hometown we had a combine wedding for both family. It was so crowded i cant even remember exactly who came to hug me the entire night and i was so hungry during the event but i can't eat that much (blame the tight corset. women's issue!)

And of course my 3 bff came to the wedding as my bridesmaid (big hugs girls!) and most of my classmates in school and university also came that night and it was a very beautiful event meeting up everyone after some time.

That was one year ago. Our Anniversary is coming in 4 days. How times flies. Being a wife to Mr. N is the best decision i ever made.

P/S: We might not be a perfect person but we were perfect for each other =)


Lots of love,
-Shaff-

Some kind of Valedictory speech

sebab best student dapat buat valedictory speech kite pun nak la jugak kan..cuma yg membezakannya adalah best student dapat present his speech during the convocation ceremony and saya just dapat type jela..haha.. here it goes...

after all those struggling years..this is the day that im waiting for. the day where all the hard work were paid for. a degree scroll !!! its like a pay cheque for the labours except you will only get it once and for all..and its not money!

One and a half year of foundations studies and four years of degree is impossible to be done and over with without some special force from some special people and of course the almighty Allah s.w.t.

special thanks goes to..

mak and abah,
I wouldn't be here if not because of both of you. I would probably left law school long time ago if not because of your moral support. Thanks for those hard work to convince me that this is the right place for me. Thanks for those motivational talk every single moment. Thanks for listening to my ramblings. Thanks for comforting me whenever I had those stressful moment. Thanks so much from the deep of my heart for everything that I failed to mention here. Thank you for being such a great parents.

my kakak and two adik,
my world would probably turn upside down if you guys were not there. Thanks for being such a wonderful siblings cum bestfriends, for being the most loyal people and stand beside me through thick and thin (although you guys had no other choice but to be there as we are siblings..haha), for showing me that a failure is never a failure but just a second chance for us to keep going, for your understanding as I can be a little bit intolerable sometimes and for your honest comment that somehow grown me up. Thank you for being my kakak and my adik-adik (but we were more like happy friends living together..^^)

my bestest girlfriend ever,
siapalah saya di Aikol itu tanpa korang semua..haha. You guys are my bestfriends, roomates, classmates, mooting partners, groupmates assignments and everything that we can possibly be during the past 6 years..and counting! Thanks for become a shoulder for me to lean on, thanks for wiping my tears and listening to my sobbing, thanks for letting me cry randomly, thanks for keep supporting me throughout my failures and be there throughout my success, thanks for being my comrade to walk through this journey. congratulations,at last we all made it together. All our hard work were paid for!

my classmates,partners,seniors,juniors,girlfriends and boyfriends,
yeah..whomever you are im glad you all were once there to keep this life more interesting. my student's life would not be this interesting if none of you were there . seriously! we met we not understand why but we learn something more than money can buy and more than life can trade. Thank you for willing to be a part of my life story.

my lectures and tutors,
what can I say more. Obviously you guys are the most important people that brings me to where I am today. Despite my poor performance in class and my lack of participation in tutorials tapi anda semua tak pernah menolak kehadiran saya di iium.that im glad!

my supporting team,
ini termasuklah makcik kantin,abang photostat,kakak office,adik jaga kiosks,pakcik guard dan makcik guard dan semua yang terlibat menjaga keharmonian kehidupan saya sepanjang belajar disini. Tanpa korang kualiti hidup saya terjejas..hehe.much thanks!

my extra supporting team,
ini termasuk perkara2 yang berada di alam maya iaitu social media, google search, wikipedia, lexisnexis, lawnet, opac and ecetra yang tak pernah menghampakan saya sepanjang proses pembelajaran. (kena hantar thank you note nih..haha)

last but not least thank you to iium itself for accepting me to be a part of the team in this garden or knowledge and virtue.

I thank all of you with all my heart. Alhamdulillah and Thank you ^.^

p/s; ucapan yang agak poyo ini ikhlas datang dari sudut hati yang paling dalam..hehe.

sincerely from LLB(Hons)holder,
XXSHAFFXX

Random memoires#11

I love to write.

be it a short notes, quotes, random scribbles or poetry..

writing gives me a little something to think about.

it gave me ideas, dreams and hope.

most importantly writing reduced my stress level!

This blog is a place for me to randomly write on.

i love it how everything can be expressed through words.

words can be a da'wah, can be a cure, can be anything you want it to be.

everyone have it but not all know how to use it.

Expresses how you feel today,

write on,

write something.

it helped.

really!

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#10

I kind of live with this mantra all out,

because i'm not that lucky person who always succeed in their first try in everything.

I failed in almost everything.

I just never give up.

so, dear everyone..

let's strive together.

whisper to yourself,

I'll Never Give Up!

#lifegoeson

Life's hard. I know.

But to not living is harder.

so, lets just keep living.

Breath in, breath out everyone.

still breathing?

 that's means you still living.

that's means you have no choice but to never give up!!

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#9

This is lightning. And it come in full set with thunder.

Technically,

thunder caused by lightning as a result of clashes of the electrons in the air.

Yeah, I know you knew it.

Do you like it?

Well, I don't.

I'm not a fan of this kind of lightning although it's happened all the time in this country.

I'll get anxious whenever I sense the dark cloud and heavy rain.

When i was little i always forced myself to sleep whenever this kind of weather came just for the sake of not seeing it and not hearing it.

And since then, I covered my ears when sleeping just in case. Haha.

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#8

I always set my alarm to 5 am but i end up hitting the snooze button and even dismissed it everytime.

I really want to wake up early and become a morning person.

I wonder if anyone can help me find a reason to really walking up at 5 and happily working on anything during that hour.

~purpose..please come..

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#7

I love to write. 

And by writing i expressed myself better.

I wish, one day my poem and my writing can be read by everyone all over the world and the name will be 

'the living poet shaffyshaff' or should i use 'Shaff Suhaimi'..ermm i'll think about that later!

But i totally am a writer and will have my own book.

I want to be the next Shakespere.

Who can say no to Shakespere right??

=p

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#3

I want an eternity ring with both our name carved on it.

Can you do it that much for me??

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#2

Never do this kind of trick/surprises to me because i never really finish up my drink to the bottom of the cup..=p

-randomShaff-