I’m not saying being me is good..

I’m not saying living in my life is splendid..

But, what I’m gonna say is just have a taste a little bit of my life and tell me how it really is..

Hear my story..

Spill if you want and swallow if you like..

Shaff-story..is a tale..a taste of me~shaff

Thursday, December 5, 2013

..because its not easy being me..

I love my life. I really do. But just because I love it does not mean that I live it in a smooth sailing life with a fairy tale kind of ending. It was not. Trust me. Those fairy tale kind of ending meant for a fairy only and thats why they called it a fairy tale not a human tale.

In a human tale,
you were not born with a silver spoon in your mouth. You have to work for it. No such thing as free lunch. Nobodies born as a princess except 'the princess'.

In human tale,
you have to think about your future. What you want to do and what you want to be. Its always in need of a series of brainstorming and brainwashing and reverse psychology. No family empayar that you just have to take your turn and run it.

In human tale,
you have to choose between two things thats not obvious which one is better so you always end up making a wrong decision. No true or false scale and of course cannot judge it according to one look (as bad things always been drawn ugly in fairy tales).

In human tale,
you suffers a multi million type of emotions and stumble around over and over again until the end of the day. Not just a basic fairy tales emotions where you were either happy or..happy.

In human tale,
there is no fairy god mother to help you make your bed or finish up your chores or simplify your day. You dont even have a pet who can talk!

In human tale,
you don't marry a prince! (yeah..okay..except for Kate Middleton.duh!) not only that, you don't even meet the prince to start with.


what I can say is..

To be a human,
you were given a choice either to lead your life like a princess or better off a king or a queen. Because its your own life we're talking about.Its up to you how you mold it. You may not be a princess to a kingdom but you are a princess to your friends, families and everyone around you. Take charge!

To be a human,
you were meant to be creating your own path be it in career, lifestyle or futures. Why take up others empayar if you can create one by your own? Be independent!

To be a human,
you can let go of your emotions out loud. Freedom of expressions can be in many ways. Write it, draw it, talk about it, ramble it, cry over it, get up when you fall, jump high when you win, sleep, eat, run, do whatever you want as long as you keep living and standing, you're a winner. Be strong!

To be a human,
you have Allah to help you. The almighty Allah is the only one who can help you in this life. Just pray for it. You have Al-Quran and sunnah as your guidance and reference. Learn it and never leave it. And you still have your pet although not to help you but to give you something to cuddle and its cute! Be positive!

To be a human (not Kate Middleton!),
you have your own fair share of happiness. You may not marry a prince but you can choose to marry a nice person who you can count on and can make you as happy as a princess in a fairy tale where they live happily ever after.( you can even marry in a pumpkin carriage and the white horse if you want to. seriously! ) because to have a successful relationship is not about finding the right person, but learning to love the person you found. At the end of the day, love is a decision and not just a feeling. God determines who walks into your life BUT its you who decide who you let to walk away, who you let to stay and who you never let GO! Be happy!

P/s:Being me Is what I want!


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