JANJI ALLAH

Allah dah janji. Doa-doa orang yang teraniaya itu makbul. Maka jika kau rasa kau teraniaya, berdoalah. Mudah-mudahan Allah setuju.

Tetapi atas dasar apa doa itu? Doa untuk membalas dendamkah? Doa untuk melihat keruntuhan diakah? Doa semoga dia sengsarakah?

Tidak. Bagi aku, sebaik-baik doa adalah ‘aku telah memaafkan kesalahan kau keatasku dan segala perbuatan kau keatasku dan semoga Allah juga  mengampunkan dosa-dosa yang telah kau lakukan keatasNya’.

Kerana apa? Kerana bagi aku Allah lebih tau apa yang terbaik untuk setiap hamba-hambanya. Allah lebih arif pembalasan apakah yang paling setimpal buat dia. Mungkin hati ini meronta untuk membalas dendam. Mungkin mulut ini paling senang untuk ucapkan ‘aku tak akan maafkan dia’. Tapi sampai bila?

Allah dah kata, kalau kau berbuat silap sesama manusia maka minta maaflah kepada manusia itu sendiri. Jika sehingga ke mati kau belum meminta maaf maka carilah dia untuk meminta maaf di akhirat kelak. Tapi, hendakkah kita menangguhkan perjalanan kita di akhirat kelak semata-mata kerana masih ada insan-insan yang tengah berusaha merangkak mencari kemaafan kita? Dia mungkin lambat ke tempat perhitungan kerana kesalahan dia tapi kau kena ingat, kau juga mungkin lambat kerana harus menantikannya. Berbaloikah?

Bagi aku, tidak. Kerana apa? Kerana biar sahaja Allah yang menghitung kesalahan dia. Kita bukan maksum. Kita hanya hamba Allah yang biasa. Maka sebaiknya biarlah dia bersuka ria meraikan kemenangannya di dunia ini selagi boleh. Kerana di akhirat kelak akan ada satu lagi perhitungan buat dia. Di situ, yang benar pasti benar dan yang salah pasti salah. Itu ketetapan Allah.

Sehingga hari itu datang. Maafkanlah dia dan bergembiralah. Allah tahu semua yang benar dan Allah tak akan pernah membiarkan yang salah itu berlalu pergi.

P/s: Janji Allah itu pasti. Yakin dan fahamkan. 

cuma seorang hamba Allah,

-Shaff-

2016. 27. Married.

Hello there.

Its 2016. And here's the long overdue story.

I was married last year on 6.6.2015. Yawn. Its almost a year in a few days and here i am writing about the big event of my life. BIG YAWN.

The thing is, i might give birth to our first baby anytime soon hence the wedding story. Because who might know my kids might read this entry one day and they might ask where's the wedding story. (so perasan)

6.6.2015

With one lafaz of Akad, i am a wife to this gentleman name Mr. N. (I'll post up his picture right after this. He deserve that much acknowledgment to be by my side till death do us part)

I met him through my parents and we get to know each other for about a year before we decided to get married (although he did proposed me after 3 days of getting to know each other). And then he flew to UK for his master studies and i was completing my second degree. So basically we only see each other twice before he was departed. And for the whole one year of getting to know each other, It was a long distance relationship. Because of the time differences and busy schedule, we only get to text each other on weekend and because of my 'poyo' request to jaga the adab and everything he only called me once a month.

For that one year, there was so many ups and down between us (well most of it was because of me!) I feel like my life was so complicated and that i am not ready to handle a man in my life (so drama) but above all of my attitude, he was so patient and loyal towards me. He never retract his proposal despite everything that i ever said or done to him (so baik la this guy).

So when he finally came back from his study, we did make prior arrangement to meet at the KLIA and i was so nervous i suspect there was a big fat elephant thumping in my stomach. Meeting him once again after a year communicating through text only really is a weird thing (in a good way). I feel like all those one year was vanish away and that day was the first day we really get to know each other. Like a blind date kinda feeling (although i never been to one before). We were so awkward and we don't know what to say to each other.

After some time, he tried to break the ice and make a conversation. It went well. He gave me a lot of beautiful stuff he bought throughout that one year and collect it all to give it to me that day. (And of course the insensitive me have nothing to give back to him not even a welcome home card! SIGH)

That day went so well and when its time for him to take the flight home ( he already bought flight ticket to hometown that same day so we spend  time only in between his flight schedule) i already feel attached to him. So again, we separated to a different city.

After that he was busy with finding job and I was busy with my Chambering (9 month internship to be advocates and solicitors) and we only get to see each other when he came to KL and believe it or not we never really had a proper date where i get to wear nice outfit and make up ( i really hope we have time to do that again).

On Janury 2015, at the end of my 9 month Chambering, the marriage proposal came again. And this time it was my father who brought that up (LOL thanks Dad). This time around i really don't have anymore reason to say no as i've already graduated and have proper job. So it's a YES. Once again we met each other as requested by our parents to discuss the date for marriage (that night his family came to my house for proper discussion). He came with that small 'kalendar cina' and highlighted to me all the proposed date (i can't stop laughing thinking about that) and we decided 6.6.2015 (he's so keen towards nice number arrangement).

That night, i was engaged to him. Although it was only a mere gathering to discuss our relationship but his family came with a ring ( and i am so not ready for an engagement ceremony i wore only tudung sarung and plain jubah. LOL). We only have less than 6 month to prepare for the wedding and as i am working in KL and only went back home occasionally it was my dear Mom who arrange for everything (Love you Mom!) and i only went back home 3 days before the wedding.

Alhamdulillah everything went well. The akad nikah was in the morning of 6.6.2015 and we had our reception that same night. And because we were both from the same hometown we had a combine wedding for both family. It was so crowded i cant even remember exactly who came to hug me the entire night and i was so hungry during the event but i can't eat that much (blame the tight corset. women's issue!)

And of course my 3 bff came to the wedding as my bridesmaid (big hugs girls!) and most of my classmates in school and university also came that night and it was a very beautiful event meeting up everyone after some time.

That was one year ago. Our Anniversary is coming in 4 days. How times flies. Being a wife to Mr. N is the best decision i ever made.

P/S: We might not be a perfect person but we were perfect for each other =)


Lots of love,
-Shaff-

Layakkah kita?

Manusia mengeluh bila ditimpa kesusahaan tapi terlupa untuk bersyukur atas seribu kebaikan.

Sedar tak kita bahawa Allah tak tarik satu pun nikmat daripada kita, tapi tak pernah pula kita bersyukur. Sebab apa? Sebab selagi kita tak nampak ada benda hilang kita lupa benda itu hanya pinjaman.

Allah Cuma tambah satu sahaja lagi beban atas bahu kita itu pun kita dah mengeluh macam esok dah hilang nyawa. Sebab apa? Sebab fitrah manusia, yang beban nak diungkit yang nikmat lupa nak disyukuri.

Jadi, layakkah kita mengeluh lagi?

Hutang manusia dengan manusia sampai kau sanggup berbunuhan. Tapi hutang manusia dengan Allah tiada siapa pula yang peduli.  Sebab apa? Sebab kita lupa azab neraka itu selagi tak timbul depan mata. Kau berhutang dengan manusia kau fikir sampai tak boleh tidur malam. Punyalah gelisah. Takut dengan manusia punya pasal . Tapi bila kau hutang solat dengan Allah, tak solat isya’ pun kau mampu lagi tidur nyenyak sampai ke pagi sampai terhutang pula solat subuh. Bila nak bayar tu? Tak gelisah pun. Maksudnya apa? Tak takut dengan Allah kah?  

Jadi, layakkah kita mengeluh lagi?

Hutang rumah, hutang ptptn, hutang kredit kad semua tu ada dateline yang kau boleh nampak tapi kau takut bukan main lagi. Hutang Allah yang kau tak nampak dateline tu sikit pun kau tak takut. Mana tau tidur malam ni esok Allah dah tarik nyawa. Tak risaukah? Kalau risau kenapa tak peduli?

Dalam Allah bagi ujian tu Dia tak tarik satu pun lagi nikmat daripada kau yang Dia bagi selama ini. selagi kau masih ada atap di atas kepala, kau masih ada kesihatan yang terjaga, kau masih ada juadah di atas meja, bersyukurlah.  Sebab semua itu bukan hak milik mutlak pun. Mana tau esok-esok dah tiada.  Selagi masih ada nyawa dalam jasad kau, bersyukurlah. Itu tandanya masih ada masa untuk kau selesaikannya. Allah tak bagi ujian itu tanpa sebab.  Allah bagi ujian itu untuk tengok sejauh mana kau yakin dengan Dia. Kalau awal lagi kau dah merungut, itu tandanya awal lagi kau dah kandas, awal lagi kau dah tewas. Asyik nak senang saja, buat apa hidup atas dunia? Ingatlah, dunia bukan tempat untuk bersenang-lenang, tapi dunia hanyalah tempat persinggahan untuk kumpul dana supaya kita dapat bersenang-lenang di syurga. Kucing di jalanan pun Allah tak bagi makan free tanpa usaha, inikan pula manusia.

Jadi, layakkah kita mengeluh lagi?

Satu saja soalan aku nak tanya. Andai kata Allah bagi pilihan pada kau untuk Dia tarik balik satu sahaja nikmat dari kau demi menyelesaikan segala masalah yang kau ada, nikmat apakah yang sanggup kau korbankan? Kesihatankah? Anak isterikah? Mak ayahkah? Pekerjaankah? Nyawakah? Kalau satu pun bukan, layakkah kau mengeluh?

Dalam sebegitu banyak nikmat yang Dia bagi siapa kita untuk mempersoalkan sedikit masalah yang Dia suruh kita tempuh.

Hidup. Hadap. Itu sahaja.

P/s: saling ingat-mengingati. sebab itu sahaja yang aku mampu. 

xoxo,

-Shaff-

They may have money but they need friends

Being a lawyer is not all about winning the case but keeping your client happy is one of the basic duty.

I went out for a luncheon with the clients aka the vips that have million of assets in their hands but one thing I saw what they really need is someone to talk to and keep them company. They may have money but what they really need is some friends. A nice friends where they can rely on and not just be there because of the money.

It was a nice luncheon at the Royale Chulan hotel ( the ordinary me wouldn't have lunch there just for fun!) the lunch buffet there cost me my entire week's lunch expenses.

We talked the entire journey to the hotel and talk some more on our journey back. It was so funny how they can change the subject from discussing seriously on the missing flight of MH370 to how it was hard to find a banana nowadays. And then they were talking so seriously on their theory of how the plane can be hijacked and suddenly stop talking and change the subject to how beautiful the bougainvillea is. Then they talk about how they think their private driver had cheated on them on the fuel expenses to suddently discussing what type of tree they should start plant at their new home. They also expressed their worries on the contractors that they hired to repair some defects on their house but try to knock down everything else as well just to get a higher pay.

I feel sorry for them. And I feel mad at how bad this world can be with all those hypocrite that live only for money. why can't people live with more sincerity? why can't we be friends not just for benefit?

when I thanked them for the lunch the thing that they said really touched me..

" Don't thanks me, we should thanked you. Its not about the lunch its about the company"

I smile all the way. Making people happy is whats make me happy. They are nice peoples. and they have millions in their savings but they did not need that. what they really need is a loyal person that can work with them with sincerity. Not a cheating driver, not a contractor who came and renovate their house unnecessarily and charged double on everything and not a friend who came by just to do business. They need real friends and real company. they need family...and a cat!..

You might not know this but sometimes your simple presence is the only thing that someone really need at that time and the only thing you have to do is to be there!

So the next time someone ask for your company, Don't let them down. you might be the only person they have and the only person they hope for.

p/s: Be there for your love one. family, friends or anyone that need you..and be sincere. Nothing beats a piece of nice heart.

Love ya,
XXSHAFFXX

Its New Year!!!!

I can't believe it!!
One more year went by just like that!

For this new year I should have come up with a more mature kind of speech or stuff like that but I guess im too busy to even think about that.Yeah,totally forgot! Duh!

I dont even have my so called new year resolution. I shouldn't have start this new year this unprepared right..~~

I'll get back to that some other day.promise!

For this impromptu wishes..
I just want to wish all of you who were reading this a very happy new year!!!
May you have a blast 2014 and a blast in everything!!! 

P/s; to my dearest girls, happy friendship anniversary!!! Its been 6 years and gladly counting!!! ^.^

Lots of love,

^shaff^

..because its not easy being me..

I love my life. I really do. But just because I love it does not mean that I live it in a smooth sailing life with a fairy tale kind of ending. It was not. Trust me. Those fairy tale kind of ending meant for a fairy only and thats why they called it a fairy tale not a human tale.

In a human tale,
you were not born with a silver spoon in your mouth. You have to work for it. No such thing as free lunch. Nobodies born as a princess except 'the princess'.

In human tale,
you have to think about your future. What you want to do and what you want to be. Its always in need of a series of brainstorming and brainwashing and reverse psychology. No family empayar that you just have to take your turn and run it.

In human tale,
you have to choose between two things thats not obvious which one is better so you always end up making a wrong decision. No true or false scale and of course cannot judge it according to one look (as bad things always been drawn ugly in fairy tales).

In human tale,
you suffers a multi million type of emotions and stumble around over and over again until the end of the day. Not just a basic fairy tales emotions where you were either happy or..happy.

In human tale,
there is no fairy god mother to help you make your bed or finish up your chores or simplify your day. You dont even have a pet who can talk!

In human tale,
you don't marry a prince! (yeah..okay..except for Kate Middleton.duh!) not only that, you don't even meet the prince to start with.

BUT

what I can say is..

To be a human,
you were given a choice either to lead your life like a princess or better off a king or a queen. Because its your own life we're talking about.Its up to you how you mold it. You may not be a princess to a kingdom but you are a princess to your friends, families and everyone around you. Take charge!

To be a human,
you were meant to be creating your own path be it in career, lifestyle or futures. Why take up others empayar if you can create one by your own? Be independent!

To be a human,
you can let go of your emotions out loud. Freedom of expressions can be in many ways. Write it, draw it, talk about it, ramble it, cry over it, get up when you fall, jump high when you win, sleep, eat, run, do whatever you want as long as you keep living and standing, you're a winner. Be strong!

To be a human,
you have Allah to help you. The almighty Allah is the only one who can help you in this life. Just pray for it. You have Al-Quran and sunnah as your guidance and reference. Learn it and never leave it. And you still have your pet although not to help you but to give you something to cuddle and its cute! Be positive!

To be a human (not Kate Middleton!),
you have your own fair share of happiness. You may not marry a prince but you can choose to marry a nice person who you can count on and can make you as happy as a princess in a fairy tale where they live happily ever after.( you can even marry in a pumpkin carriage and the white horse if you want to. seriously! ) because to have a successful relationship is not about finding the right person, but learning to love the person you found. At the end of the day, love is a decision and not just a feeling. God determines who walks into your life BUT its you who decide who you let to walk away, who you let to stay and who you never let GO! Be happy!

P/s:Being me Is what I want!

XOXO,
Shaff

Some kind of Valedictory speech

sebab best student dapat buat valedictory speech kite pun nak la jugak kan..cuma yg membezakannya adalah best student dapat present his speech during the convocation ceremony and saya just dapat type jela..haha.. here it goes...

after all those struggling years..this is the day that im waiting for. the day where all the hard work were paid for. a degree scroll !!! its like a pay cheque for the labours except you will only get it once and for all..and its not money!

One and a half year of foundations studies and four years of degree is impossible to be done and over with without some special force from some special people and of course the almighty Allah s.w.t.

special thanks goes to..

mak and abah,
I wouldn't be here if not because of both of you. I would probably left law school long time ago if not because of your moral support. Thanks for those hard work to convince me that this is the right place for me. Thanks for those motivational talk every single moment. Thanks for listening to my ramblings. Thanks for comforting me whenever I had those stressful moment. Thanks so much from the deep of my heart for everything that I failed to mention here. Thank you for being such a great parents.

my kakak and two adik,
my world would probably turn upside down if you guys were not there. Thanks for being such a wonderful siblings cum bestfriends, for being the most loyal people and stand beside me through thick and thin (although you guys had no other choice but to be there as we are siblings..haha), for showing me that a failure is never a failure but just a second chance for us to keep going, for your understanding as I can be a little bit intolerable sometimes and for your honest comment that somehow grown me up. Thank you for being my kakak and my adik-adik (but we were more like happy friends living together..^^)

my bestest girlfriend ever,
siapalah saya di Aikol itu tanpa korang semua..haha. You guys are my bestfriends, roomates, classmates, mooting partners, groupmates assignments and everything that we can possibly be during the past 6 years..and counting! Thanks for become a shoulder for me to lean on, thanks for wiping my tears and listening to my sobbing, thanks for letting me cry randomly, thanks for keep supporting me throughout my failures and be there throughout my success, thanks for being my comrade to walk through this journey. congratulations,at last we all made it together. All our hard work were paid for!

my classmates,partners,seniors,juniors,girlfriends and boyfriends,
yeah..whomever you are im glad you all were once there to keep this life more interesting. my student's life would not be this interesting if none of you were there . seriously! we met we not understand why but we learn something more than money can buy and more than life can trade. Thank you for willing to be a part of my life story.

my lectures and tutors,
what can I say more. Obviously you guys are the most important people that brings me to where I am today. Despite my poor performance in class and my lack of participation in tutorials tapi anda semua tak pernah menolak kehadiran saya di iium.that im glad!

my supporting team,
ini termasuklah makcik kantin,abang photostat,kakak office,adik jaga kiosks,pakcik guard dan makcik guard dan semua yang terlibat menjaga keharmonian kehidupan saya sepanjang belajar disini. Tanpa korang kualiti hidup saya terjejas..hehe.much thanks!

my extra supporting team,
ini termasuk perkara2 yang berada di alam maya iaitu social media, google search, wikipedia, lexisnexis, lawnet, opac and ecetra yang tak pernah menghampakan saya sepanjang proses pembelajaran. (kena hantar thank you note nih..haha)

last but not least thank you to iium itself for accepting me to be a part of the team in this garden or knowledge and virtue.

I thank all of you with all my heart. Alhamdulillah and Thank you ^.^

p/s; ucapan yang agak poyo ini ikhlas datang dari sudut hati yang paling dalam..hehe.

sincerely from LLB(Hons)holder,
XXSHAFFXX

Kisah jodoh

Jodoh itu salah satu rezeki dari Allah. salah satu rahsia Allah yang sampai bila-bila pun kita takkan dapat tahu apa yang tersirat di sebaliknya. Yang kita sedar hanya the fact that indeed jodoh itu datang dan pergi tanpa sebarang warning beforehand. yang ada ditangan kita hanyalah pilihan sama ada untuk mengenggam rezeki jodoh itu atau membiarkan ia pergi. still at the end of the day kita tak akan tahu pun keputusan apa yang terbaik sebenarnya. Hanya perlu yakin yang segala yang berlaku tentu ada hikmah di sebaliknya.

Jodoh itu datang dalam pelbagai bentuk. persahabatan, persaudaraan, kekeluargaan, jodoh sebagai guru dan murid, jodoh sebagai bos dan pekerja ataupun yang paling menjadi hukum norma adalah jodoh sebagai suami isteri.

setelah jodoh itu hadir, ada sesuatu lagi yang belum kita pasti dan tak mungkin akan kita pasti sampai bila-bila, iaitu sampai bila jodoh itu akan dapat bertahan. Bukan kerana salah sesiapa tetapi memang itu yang telah ditetapkan. sekali lagi dijelaskan bahawa jodoh itu rezeki, dan rezeki itu mungkin hak kita untuk jangka masa yang lama dan boleh jadi jugak hanya untuk sementara.

Jadi, dapat disimpulkan disini bahawa, apabila rezeki jodoh itu hadir dalam apa jua bentuk sekalipun, jangan begitu mudah menolaknya tanpa usul periksa juga jangan terlalu taksub mendakapnya tanpa sebarang batasan. Bersederhanalah dan bersyukurlah. Selagi rezeki itu ada dalam genggaman jagalah ia sebaiknya kerana kita tidak tahu bila waktunya ia akan ditarik balik dari genggaman, dan bila rezeki itu ditarik balik, redhakanlah ia pergi kerana segala sesuatu itu bukan hak mutlak sesiapa kecuali Allah.

Selagi masih bernafas kita di muka bumi ini selagi itu masih berpeluang untuk kita mendapat rezeki dari yang maha esa. selagi terdaya, berusaha, berdoa dan bertawakkal semoga dimurahkan segala rezeki dan dipermudahkan segala urusan. Amin.

p/s; alhamdulillah for today. pray for a better tomorrow.

xoxo,
shaff

One more year went by..

Salam maal hijrah,

Kepada diri ini dan seluruh alam.

Either you like it or not, pat your shoulder and praise yourself..'what a great year you had there'. You deserves some credit for still standing and not give up!

Semua orang ada kesusahan mereka sendiri and to not having any problems and difficulties is to not having life at all. So having at least one problem is like a prove that you are indeed living this life.

Jangan takut dengan masalah. Sebab setiap masalah itu datang dengan penyelesaian macam problematic questions in mathematics. You might not see the answer at first glance but you'll get the answer eventually when you try to solve it using the correct formula.

So the main point is that..you just have to know the right formula!

Kalau ada buku living life for the dummies confirm dah jadi bestseller dah kan..tapi the thing is, there is no real formula on how to live life sebab tak ada seorang pun yang sama kisah hidupnya. Kita ada cerita masing-masing dan cerita orang lain itu cuma boleh jadi pendorong untuk kita tahu yang yeah Im not alone.

Walau apa pun cerita anda, walau macam mana pun susahnya hidup anda satu benda yang pasti kena ingat..Allah turunkan ujian itu kerana Dia tahu hambanya itu mampu melaluinya. Allah gave the strongest battle to His strongest soldiers. Survived it and indeed you are a warrior and proud!!

Jadi sempena tahun baru ini, semoga anda menjadi lebih kuat dengan segala ujian yang lepas dan lebih matang dengan segala ujian yang bakal mendatang.

P/s: Ucapan skema ini ikhlas dari saya,
The'shaff'
-the one who always try to win this battle-

Damn this feelings!

Kenapa perasaan manusia sangat complicated?

Tak boleh ke kalau rasa nak marah terus je marah or kalau rasa nak menangis terus je menangis or kalau rasa happy terus je cakap yes I'm happy..

Kenapa perlu ada rasa sakit hati sebab pendam kemarahan and rasa sesak dada sebab tahan air mata or rasa ego nak mengaku yang indeed I'am happy with him!

Damn this feeling!

Dulu aku tak macam ni pun..dulu akulah manusia paling cool..tak reti nak sentap-sentap, tak reti nak leleh air mata..

Sekarang aku jadi sangat fragile. Aku jadi sangat sensitif. Semua benda nak sentap.

Damn this feeling!

Mana perginya aku yang dulu?

Get a grip please!

Jangan mudah tumbang dengan perasaan.
Perasaan perlukan perisai.
Perasaan perlukan hati yang kental.
Perasaan tak perlukan emosi yang tak menentu.

Get a grip!

If you can't let go of the feelings, make sure you get a shield for those feelings..



The confused one,
-shaff-

Almost ended..

salam,

Its June already. Time flies and we don't even realize it.
Nasib baik ada calendar as a reminder, if not kita semua confirm dah hanyut dengan masa.
what's more important is my first sem for my second degree almost ended!
Rasa macam baru semalam je pergi beratur dekat AMAD untuk registeration and sekarang dah nak habis pun. Sekarang tengah final exam and tinggal satu paper je lagi before semua ni berakhir. Tapi bukanlah berakhir as in forever sebab saya still ada one more sem to go..still berakhirnya sem ni is one major relief for me. Suffer? yess! Hate? nopeee..

Mula-mula memang suffer. Dah berapa kali dah plan nak lari je dari sini and start kerja macam kawan-kawan lain tapi kalau dah memang tertulis dan termaktub bahawa rezeki saya is here, siapa yang boleh ubah kan? Create lah seribu alasan pun, Failed lah sejuta paper pun last-last dekat sini jugak. Register untuk sambung another degree and bang! macam tu je accepted.

And again, kisah suffering time first degree dulu pun berulanglah dengan jayanya..test failed, assingment last minute, tutorial yang menyesakkan nafas, presentations yang menggetarkan segala sendi lutut and yeah..everything in between it. But, one good thing about time is, it sure flies diligently and at the end of the day, hardship ends...

After all those hardships, yang tinggal for me is 3 month worth of holidays before i start back with the second semester. I think that's pretty cool! I can play all day long and play all day long and play allll dayyy looogggg...!!

Till then...tata^^

p/s: wanna play all day long with me?? hehe

The excited me,
<3 shaff <3

Bulan Rejab.

Salam,

Esok sabtu, 11 May 2013, bersamaan dengan 1 Rejab 1432h.

Diriwayatkan bahawa Nabi SAW telah bersabda:

“Ketahuilah bahawa bulan Rejab itu adalah bulan ALLAH, maka barangsipa yang berpuasa satu hari dalam bulan Rejab dengan ikhlas, maka pasti ia mendapat keredhaan yang besar dari ALLAH SWT.

Barangsiapa yang berpuasa dua hari dalam bulan Rejab mendapat kemuliaan di sisi ALLAH SWT.

Barangsiapa berpuasa tiga hari dalam bulan Rejab, maka ALLAH akan menyelamatkannya dari bahaya dunia, seksa akhirat, dari terkena penyakit gila, penyakit putih-putih di kulit badan yang menyebabkan sangat gatal dan diselamatkan dari fitnahnya syaitan dan dajjal.

Barangsiapa yang berpuasa lima hari dalam bulan Rejab, permintaannya akan dikabulkan oleh ALLAH SWT.

Barangsiapa berpuasa tujuh hari dalam bulan Rejab, maka ditutupkan tujuh pintu neraka Jahanam.

Barangsiapa berpuasa lapan hari dalam bulan Rejab, maka dibukakan lapan pintu syurga baginya.

Barangsiapa berpuasa lima belas hari dalam bulan Rejab, maka ALLAH mengampuni dosa-dosanya yang telah lalu dan menggantikan kesemua kejahatannya dengan kebaikan, dan barangsiapa yang menambah (hari-hari puasa) maka ALLAH akan menambahkan pahalanya.”

p/s: jadi, marilah kita bersama-sama memanfaatkan bulan yang mulia ini..boleh practice puasa siap-siap before sampai bulan Ramadhan nanti..=)

Lots of love,

-shaff-

Hadith 40 Imam an-Nawawi #1

Salam,

Hanya kerana sebaris ayat ini..

 "Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda: “Sampaikan dari ku walaupun sepotong ayat."

I feel that I have to share, sharing not because I have a lot but because I have something..bukan untuk mengajar tetapi sekadar berkongsi untuk kita sama-sama belajar dan mendapat kebaikan darinya..insyaallah.

Kenapa saya pilih hadith 40? No specific reason, Just because I have to start with something...

Rasulullah SAW said: " whosoever memorises and preserves for my people forty hadith relating to their religion, Allah will resurrect him on the Day of Judgment in the company of jurists and religious scholars." 

#1:

On the authority of Umar bin Al-Khattab, who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah S.A.W say:

"Actions are but by intention and every man shall have but that which he intended. Thus, he whose migration was for Allah and His Messenger, his migration was for Allah and His Messenger, and he whose migration was to achieve  some worldly benefit or to take some women in marriage, his migration was for that for which he migrated."- related by Bukhari and Muslim.

"Sesungguhnya setiap perbuatan itu  bergantung kepada niatnya. Dan sesungguhnya setiap orang (akan mendapat balasan) berdasarkan apa yang dia niatkan. Sesiapa yang hijrahnya adalah kerana (ingin mendapatkan keredhaan) Allah dan Rasul-Nya, maka hijrahnya adalah kepada (keredhaan) Allah dan Rasul-Nya. Dan siapa yang hijrahnya kerana menginginkan kehidupan yang layak di dunia atau kerana wanita yang ingin dinikahinya maka hijrahnya (akan bernilai sebagaimana) yang dia niatkan."

 * * *

Setiap perkara yang kita lakukan bermula dari hati, jika baik niatnya maka baiklah hasilnya. Tapi kena lah ingat jugak  bahawa niat tidak menghalalkan cara. Contohnya macam kisah Robin Hood yang mencuri dari orang kaya untuk membantu orang miskin. Niat si Robin Hood ni memangla nak tolong orang miskin tapi cara yang dia gunakan tu adalah mencuri dan semestinya perbuatan mencuri itu salah. Jadinya tak valid lah perbuatannya itu..

Seorang mu'min akan diberi ganjaran pahala berdasarkan kadar niatnya dan yang membezakan antara ibadah dan adat (kebiasaan/rutin) adalah niat. So, lepas ni mulakan hidup anda dengan berniat untuk mendapat keredhaan Allah. Start with your first step with niat LillahiTa'ala, mudah-mudahan pekerjaan yang baik sepanjang hari itu adalah jihad.

p/s: sharing is totally caring and Islam is a beautiful way of life.

lots of love,

-shaff-

missing home=(

This is just a short note..
about me missing home.
i miss home.
home miss me?
why me not at home although its a week hols?
HOMEWORK!
me need to do assignment.
me need to study for test.
me need to prepare for presentation.
Me.Is.Hate.School.Now!! huh!
owh yeah, one more reason is,
me can't buy flight's ticket coz its too expensive.
(Rm300 for one way. baik aku beli ticket pegi London tengok London bridge!!...*sarcastic)
me is hate the airbus!! huh!
me need private plane like right now!

p/s:forgive the bad grammar.me is not in 'perfect english' mood.

theonewhostuckedatSchool,
-shaff-

Random memoires#11

I love to write.

be it a short notes, quotes, random scribbles or poetry..

writing gives me a little something to think about.

it gave me ideas, dreams and hope.

most importantly writing reduced my stress level!

This blog is a place for me to randomly write on.

i love it how everything can be expressed through words.

words can be a da'wah, can be a cure, can be anything you want it to be.

everyone have it but not all know how to use it.

Expresses how you feel today,

write on,

write something.

it helped.

really!

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#10

I kind of live with this mantra all out,

because i'm not that lucky person who always succeed in their first try in everything.

I failed in almost everything.

I just never give up.

so, dear everyone..

let's strive together.

whisper to yourself,

I'll Never Give Up!

#lifegoeson

Life's hard. I know.

But to not living is harder.

so, lets just keep living.

Breath in, breath out everyone.

still breathing?

 that's means you still living.

that's means you have no choice but to never give up!!

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#9

This is lightning. And it come in full set with thunder.

Technically,

thunder caused by lightning as a result of clashes of the electrons in the air.

Yeah, I know you knew it.

Do you like it?

Well, I don't.

I'm not a fan of this kind of lightning although it's happened all the time in this country.

I'll get anxious whenever I sense the dark cloud and heavy rain.

When i was little i always forced myself to sleep whenever this kind of weather came just for the sake of not seeing it and not hearing it.

And since then, I covered my ears when sleeping just in case. Haha.

-randomShaff-

Doa untuk Baba..

Salam,

This post is for my dearest girl, Shueda..

Since saya merantau jauh dari rumah just for the sake of study and seeking knowledge,
I seldom went back to my hometown..unless ada cuti panjang and for sure cuti during weekend never give me the opportunity to go back home no matter how much i missed my family.

One of the place yang saya selalu stayed at during weekend is at Shuda's house. Since kitaorg foundations lagi saya selalu ikut dia balik rumah. I'm practically her family's adopted daughter. I'm getting attached to her family as if they're mine..staying at her house all these years make me feel that her life is also a part of  my life..i've known her Baba, i've known her Mama, i've known her brothers, cousins and aunts...

Early this year, Baba had passed away...leaving all of us in this world. His absence gave a great impact to all of us. Baba was a great man, and a great daddy to Shuda and family. I've seen it with my own eyes how much he loved them and how much they love him.

Sepanjang saya menjadi tetamu tetap kat rumah Shuda, Baba always welcomed me with a warm smile, always brought us to good places to eat and always shared with us his life experiences for us to learn from...and today is Baba's birthday but Baba is no longer around. And one thing i wish I've done is thank him big enough for all the kindness i've received all these years. Thank you so so much for everything.

Dearest shuda, i will always pray for you...for you to be strong and for you to live your life with nothing but happiness. Baba may not be around any longer..but he was once here and had gave you many pretty memories. Treasure those memories and at the same time create new memories for your life today and everyday that will come. I'll always stand beside you whenever you need me.

p/s: Al-Fatihah untuk arwah Baba. semoga rohnya akan ditempatkan di kalangan orang-orang yang beriman..ameen.


lots of love,
-shaff-

Random memoires#8

I always set my alarm to 5 am but i end up hitting the snooze button and even dismissed it everytime.

I really want to wake up early and become a morning person.

I wonder if anyone can help me find a reason to really walking up at 5 and happily working on anything during that hour.

~purpose..please come..

-randomShaff-

Random memoires#7

I love to write. 

And by writing i expressed myself better.

I wish, one day my poem and my writing can be read by everyone all over the world and the name will be 

'the living poet shaffyshaff' or should i use 'Shaff Suhaimi'..ermm i'll think about that later!

But i totally am a writer and will have my own book.

I want to be the next Shakespere.

Who can say no to Shakespere right??

=p

-randomShaff-